Monday, June 18, 2018

A Bunch Of Random Stuff and WE BOUGHT A PIZZA OVEN

I'm sitting at my desk (in my pretty home office) and staring at piles and piles of papers.  The school year is over for all but a handful of programs and this is the week I am going to get all caught up...and maybe a little bit of planning ahead for once, before I take a 3-4 weeks off for summer.

The bummer is that no work means no pay, so that is just hard.  But...well, it is what it is and the best part is, after all these years I finally have a much healthier perspective on my work life.  So there's that.  

The best part is the word 'summer'.  The garden had a soft opening and then a real opening and it is going to be a beautiful season.

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Group chats keep us all up to date on the important stuff.  Haha.


The Seniors from Concordia arrived for their turn at dinner in the garden and I made piles of pizzelles for dessert.  Buying a 2nd iron has made things so much quicker...I'm actually, gulp, thinking of ordering a 3rd one.  



That moment when grown-up students (who are like family to us) come back with their not so littles for visits.  What?  Weren't they just the littles themselves?

And that guy that I like so much...what a year he's had.  God keeps throwing things his way and he answers yes and jumps in with both feet.  

I love that about him.

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Mother's Day 2018.  The sun was warm, I saw two boys in person and was able to talk to our one who lives so very faraway.  

And the best gift ever....flours from my boys.  Because...pizza oven.  

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One last Florida work trip with a super quick, I'm finished for the day and have a crazy early flight home, visit with my peeps.  

They make me feel...like me. 

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May brought my birthday, Michael's birthday, Mother's Day, the Senior dinner, graduation, a ton of recitals, a retirement party, and an official opening party for the garden. 

Lots of lists, lots of cooking, lots food, lots of laughter and big talks and little talks and a few tears.  

It's all good.  

Throw in the 'hi, I cooked too much, come over' invitations that have me running full speed (which is quite the sight) across the street for supper.

Lucky, lucky us.

The youngest of our houseful finished his sophomore year of college - WHAT???  His choir went on tour to Hawaii and he had a miserable time.  Not.  He came home tan and tired and retired...no more choir for him.  Next year he's jumping the pond for study abroad and we will have three boys on three different continents.  Not just three different cities or three different states or three different countries...but in true Busch form, we've gotta stress the mama out as much as possible and spread out as much as possible.

But I do love them.

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And then there's this:

So, a while back we had a conversation about pizza ovens.  We've pretty much had that same conversation over and over...ever since summering with our littles on the Italian island of Elba, where Napolean was exiled (lucky him!).  While wandering a village we found a restaurant that had gone out of business decades before and in the middle of the ruins was a beautiful pizza oven. 

I wanted it, but with three little boys, it just didn't fit in our luggage. We walked by every day for a week and I drooled and plotted and cried and it was, along with the leg of prosciutto that I wanted to hide in my suitcase, a no go.

But it started a conversation that went on for years.

That guy that I like so much researched.  And measured.  And researched some more.  And measured some more.  He envisioned a built-in and we just couldn't figure out how that would work with all the different types of parties we host and more importantly, how we want our little garden to feel when we are out there.

One night, a special wine was poured.  One simple click and it was ordered.  

A few weeks later, a fork lift delivered it to our little house on our little street.  But with all that measuring and planning, no one (and there were a few involved in this process) thought to measure the back gate.  

IT DIDN'T FIT.

Uh-oh.

Enter our Turkish neighbor who knows absolutely everything about everything...and if he doesn't know it, he knows a guy who does.  Who needs a tool box (or a blow torch or a ladder or a recipe for homemade olives) if you have Bulent for a neighbor?

The oven was disassembled and then reassembled...all by the light of the moon and away from the prying eyes of our crazy association board members, because even though there is no rule about pizza ovens, they will find a way to add one if need be.  

A pizza oven is a process...an event even.  You need wood...real wood that is untreated.  A fire needs to be built, dough needs to be made, wine needs to be poured.  Our first time using it, I never left the kitchen which goes against everything I believe when it comes to hosting a party.  I couldn't make the pizzas fast enough and because the oven gets to just under 1,000 degrees, the pizzas cook in one minute.

And they're so good, that they got eaten in that amount of time too.

But now we've learned.  We slow it all down.  We not only do pizzas, but we throw whatever we can think of in cast iron pans - from vegetables, baked cheese, berry cobbler, fish, steaks and throw them all out in courses.  It encourages people to slow down, to talk, to not rush...so very European.  

100% worth it.

This is going to be a fun, and delicious, summer.




And hey...did you know my SoCal town has not one, but TWO lumberyards???

Very, very convenient.

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Back to paperwork for me...I'm SO ready for summer.

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Sunday, April 8, 2018

Easter 2018


It's Sunday, the week after Easter.  I'm in my typical place...sitting at my kitchen counter on a bar stool.  All the windows are open even though it's a bit chilly (68 today...sorry east coasters) and that guy that I like so much is grilling a whole bunch of random, bottom of the bin veggies and a marinated tri-tip.  I'm drinking a summery aperol spritz and dreaming of long, hot, sunshine-y days.

Summer is coming...I feel it in my bones.

I'm catching up on messages from my boy who lives in China.  They keep me laughing...I really love the way he writes.  I love that we send voice messages and can video chat, though I notice as he settles in and gets busier those become a bit fewer and far between.  And that's the way it should be.  But I do miss him.



The azalea tree in our back yard blooms only once a year and it's the most beautiful thing ever.  Never once have we timed it for Easter Sunday...it's always a few weeks before or a few weeks after and I've tried asking it nicely to cooperate with our schedule and it just doesn't.  Kinda like children...try as you might, they always have their own schedule.  Or maybe that's just the way mine work.

But when it blooms?

WOW.

We had dinner at our friends the other night and if I had to choose a last meal, this would be it.  Or one of them.  Turkish meets Greek meets perfection.  

But more than that...it was a night of friendship.  Stories and laughter and wine and whisky and then a long walk home.  Or at least it felt long...all 50 yards of it.

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I am making a conscious effort to get back on my trail...or at least walk around my lakes, each and every day.  I'm stuck to a computer and a phone and I need to make moving my body a priority...not so much for my physical health (important, I know!) but for my emotional well being.  

I'm just grumpy if I'm all work and no play.  And a grumpy Italian is...well, a grumpy Italian.

Good Friday was a quiet day off for that guy that I like so much and he spent it doing the thing that makes him so happy...he planted.  And planted.  And planted some more.

Our garden this year is more beautiful than ever before and I'm counting down the days to the grand opening party.

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Easter Sunday...4 HUGE services for Michael and we, the fam, decided to go on Saturday night instead.  It was...weird.  Not sure we'll do that again but the service itself was beautiful...but it just didn't feel like Easter.  

I cooked - roasted pork and pesto lasagnes and garlic green beans and a ginormous salad.  Our friends brought roast lamb and potatoes and my sis-in-law brought desserts.  We sat in the garden, my New York niece made a surprise appearance, we had some students over too...and the day was lovely.  

I took one picture and it was one that makes me so happy.  These are my people.

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They hunted eggs and played corn hole and football and I just love filling this little house with people.

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Earlier this week the palm trees came out.  They were growing into the fence and into the bbq and they were, frankly, annoying me to no end.  So enter Alejandro and Juan and out they came.

Thanks, guys!


A new one will be planted soon...a smaller one that will grow big and tall in 20 years or so.  

We'll deal with that then. 

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Monday, March 26, 2018

Far And Away


The month of March, specifically Spring Break, had our little family spread out across the world.  Alex and Brian traveled for hours and hours and then some more hours to China...this was just a layover for them.  See where it says Da Nong, near Vietnam?  The little island above that is Matthew's island.

It's far away.  Very far away.



He, as in Matthew, spent the last few months traveling his new country and then vacationing all over Thailand.  He studies jiu-jitsu and centers his travels around that...and food, of course.  Both take him to some interesting places and he's met lots of fun people along the way.


In the meantime, he was sending us messages via wechat of his American shopping list..everything from deodorant to contact solution to shaving cream to whiskey.  Three huge suitcases full of stuff...all things we take for granted here.

And then, all in one day, I put that guy that I like so much (and his 60 college students) on a flight to Portland and my two youngest boys on a flight to go visit their older brother in China.

AND THEN, because this deserves to be in all capital letters, I did something very, very strange.  I went home.  Alone.

Because, for the first time in 28 years...since I became a mom, I slept all alone in my own house.  Yes, I've been alone in hotel rooms and alone for long days...but I have never spent an overnight home alone.  There has always been a husband or one boy or another who has been here with me.

And you need to know...it was GLORIOUS.  Not that I want to live alone, but it. was. blissful.

Quiet.

I took a long, hot bath.  I ate popcorn for dinner while I watched three (3!) back to back hallmark movies...all Christmas, and no one rolled their eyes at me.  I slept smack dab in the middle of the bed, which, if you must know, I do anyway.

But it was the quiet that I loved.  At least for those few days.

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And on day #3, I'd had enough quiet and hopped a flight to Seattle to meet up with that guy that I like so much.  

Oh, how I love that city.




He had to work...and so did I.  But my work is portable and so I was able to wander all over town.  The shops and the coffee and the yummy food and the friendly people...sigh.

I ran out of time and am SO bummed that I didn't buy these peppers...and can't get them here.

Oh well.

In the meantime, the pictures and videos started coming in.

These three...where do I begin?  I love them.  I love that they love each other.  I love that Alex didn't get lost.

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The reason I ran out of time and had to leave those lovely pepper flakes behind was because upon checking in for our next flight, I realized I had forgotten my passport.  And we, as in that guy that I like so much and me, were heading for a few nights in Victoria...and he had forgotten his too.

Victoria is in Canada.

And ya'll...you gotta have a passport to fly to Canada.  

Thanks to some magic elves who grabbed them from the safe place at home and paid a million $$ to have them overnighted to us and whew, they made it in time.  

All was well...even the prop plane in a storm.  Yikes.

We landed,hopped a taxie to The Empress and checked ourselves into the Gold Level.  

Oh my.

We had tea and yummies and settled in while the rain fell.  It was cold outside and happy inside and so very, very perfect.

I love high tea.  And I love the gold level.  

Thank you off-season for making it affordable!

So here we were, on our best behavior with our pinkies out and this arrives in our in box.

This kid...he's too much.

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Back to us in Canada.  We wandered out for supper and had the most amazing dinner in a tiny restaurant with brick walls and cozy nooks to sit in.  We ate oysters that were caught that morning.  Yep...me.  I ate oysters and liked 'em.  

Hell is freezing over.


We had kinda decided to not do much on our little 46-hour getaway, but Butchart Gardens was calling and so we wandered out into the quiet mist for a walk.  It was empty and still and so very green.

Like where the Hobbits live.

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And then, just as quickly as it began, we all traveled home via different parts of the world.  We had all brought back treasures and more than anything, I loved hearing how Matthew is doing so far away.  

I get it.  I moved away from family too...but a whole different continent is different than a whole different state.  It makes it hard.  But the stories were fun and he is doing well.  

I love that they were able to be together.

And among the treasures?  Purple gin made especially for the Empress Hotel, which turns pink when you add tonic.  A large bag of (gulp) MSG and a cryo-packed package of chicken feet. Big feet.

Thanks, boys.

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